always understand Eluwei though you may never have said the words he knew that he was loved and the best thing you can do for yourself your husband and your departed friends family is to be there cry together laugh together rage together you are all feeling the same way it is never easy to see one so young and so full of life be taken away and the loss will always be there but as long as you hold his words his jokes the memories of him in your heart and soul he will never be really gone from you I will hope that you all find your way through this hard time and that the wieght that is laying against your spirits ease with the knowledge that he will live on through your stories of him 

with deepest condolenscense,

Lillian